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安慰失落朋友的話
難過(guò)的時(shí)候千萬(wàn)不要相信他們說(shuō)的“不要難過(guò)”,就盡情的去傷心、去難過(guò)吧!真的哭過(guò)、鬧過(guò),才有可能會(huì)痊癒,悶在心里,只會(huì)悶出大毛病的,所以,就盡情的宣泄吧
難過(guò)了,哭泣不是唯一的表達(dá)方式,把淚咽回肚中,用堅(jiān)強(qiáng)來(lái)掩蓋脆弱;失敗了,沮喪讓心靈更加的卑微,不如驅(qū)走受挫的陰霾,讓陽(yáng)光來(lái)療養(yǎng)心傷。這個(gè)世界在意的,不是你聲嘶力竭的哭聲,而是你跌倒后如何爬起來(lái)。不要輕易向別人展示傷口,憐憫有什么用呢,只有站起來(lái),你才會(huì)有自己的高度。
傷痛使你更堅(jiān)強(qiáng),眼淚使你更勇敢,心碎使你更明智,所以,我們都應(yīng)該感謝過(guò)去,它給我們帶來(lái)了一個(gè)更好的未來(lái)。
一個(gè)人會(huì)落淚,是因?yàn)橥?一個(gè)人之所以痛,是因?yàn)樵诤?一個(gè)人之所以在乎,是因?yàn)橛懈杏X(jué);一個(gè)人之所以有感覺(jué),僅因?yàn)槟闶且粋(gè)人!所以,你有感覺(jué),在乎,痛過(guò),落淚了,說(shuō)明你是完整的一個(gè)人。難過(guò)的時(shí)候原諒自己,你只不過(guò)是一個(gè)人而已,沒(méi)必要把自己看的這么堅(jiān)不可摧。
親愛(ài)的自己,如果不開(kāi)心了就找個(gè)角落或者在被子里哭一下,你不需要?jiǎng)e人同情可憐,哭過(guò)之后一樣可以開(kāi)心生活;親愛(ài)的自己,學(xué)會(huì)控制自己的情緒,誰(shuí)都不欠你,所以你沒(méi)有道理跟別人隨便發(fā)脾氣,耍性子;親愛(ài)的自己,你可以失望但不能絕望,你要始終相信,tomorrow is another day。
該來(lái)的一定會(huì)來(lái),攆也攆不走;該走的一定要走,留也無(wú)法留。在自由的空間,清新的風(fēng)兒沒(méi)有界標(biāo),四處漂流。長(zhǎng)長(zhǎng)地吸上一口,哦,我呼吸自由!慢慢地抬起頭,看見(jiàn)樹(shù)兒在抖;心,卻像鳥(niǎo)兒一樣,飛向遠(yuǎn)方,沒(méi)有盡頭。
有時(shí)候我們有些近視,忽略了離我們最真的情感;有時(shí)候我們有些遠(yuǎn)視,模糊了離我們最近的幸福。一輩子很短,遠(yuǎn)沒(méi)有我們想象那么長(zhǎng),永遠(yuǎn)真的沒(méi)有多遠(yuǎn)。所以,對(duì)愛(ài)你的人好一點(diǎn),對(duì)自己好一點(diǎn),今天在你枕邊,明天可能成了陌路。如果這輩子來(lái)不及好好相愛(ài),就更不要指望下輩子還能遇見(jiàn)。
路,沒(méi)有錯(cuò)的,錯(cuò)的只是選擇。愛(ài),沒(méi)有錯(cuò)的,錯(cuò)的只是緣分。自己要相信,無(wú)論何地,一路風(fēng)景總無(wú)限,無(wú)論何時(shí),我們的年華總會(huì)盛開(kāi),無(wú)論何時(shí)何地,我們的愛(ài)情會(huì)永久。相信自己的心。
昨天已經(jīng)過(guò)去,而明天還沒(méi)有來(lái)到,只有今天是真實(shí)的。何必為痛苦的悔恨而喪失現(xiàn)在的心情,何必為莫名的憂慮而惶惶不可終日。過(guò)去的已經(jīng)一去不復(fù)返了,再怎么悔恨也是無(wú)濟(jì)于事。未來(lái)的還是可望而不可及,再怎么憂慮也是會(huì)空悲傷的。今天心、今日事和現(xiàn)在人,卻是實(shí)實(shí)在在的,也是感覺(jué)美好的。當(dāng)然,過(guò)去的經(jīng)驗(yàn)要總結(jié),未來(lái)的風(fēng)險(xiǎn)要預(yù)防,這才是智慧的。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽(tīng)陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚(yú)大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí),而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài),但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛(ài)上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不m.vb2themax.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車?yán),與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué),而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生,而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么,不知道是誰(shuí),不知道如何去愛(ài),也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人?墒,這種等待,就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深,很深,來(lái)日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過(guò)很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài),必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂(lè)的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性,就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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